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GenderFemaleAge52
If he won't touch you, why don't you start it off by hugging him? He IS your husband, that's your right, isn't it 1252011
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GenderFemaleAge32
I posted this. Of course I've tried to hug him and initiate things, but my whole point is that I'm the only one that does this. I'm tired of pity hugs! I told him this, and have mentioned that I want him to be more affectionate, but nothing has changed. He feels that he is a certain way and will never change. He says he has no sexual desire. I'm not totally selfish but, I did not sign up for this! 1272011
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GenderFemaleAge32
I posted this. Of course I've tried to hug him and initiate things, but my whole point is that I'm the only one that does this. I'm tired of pity hugs! I told him this, and have mentioned that I want him to be more affectionate, but nothing has changed. He feels that he is a certain way and will never change. He says he has no sexual desire. I'm not totally selfish but, I did not sign up for this! 1272011
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GenderFemaleAge27
I know how that feels,i went through the same thing,i think its time to claim your life back.you started already by working out,so get dressed,put on your make up,get friends go out for a girls night.basicly!!!!!!!have fun. No one is going to make you happy but yourself,so yes we get married because we love that person but sometimes,its really unatractive to him if you are going be needy of him all the time.so start by making yourself happy first.and just have fun,,,you will see how he changes. 3192011
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GenderFemaleAge29
Hi... Well, I just want to ask you something. Do YOU feel like you should get another job? Do YOU want to? I know you have a son, and you also have to think about him, but what if one day your husband decides to leave? You have to think about all the possibilities in your life, and not live the life someone else wants you to. Picture the life you want, and you also have the right to ask for things. He wants more money, you want more attention. Both of you have to give in a little bit, and if heīs not willing to do it, then heīs just not worth it anymore. Donīt think about the past and what you had. Think about the future, and what you want and deserve. No woman should be ignored like that, Iīve been there and itīs really hard to recover your self-esteem after being treated that way. You are the most important person in your life. You need to live a happy life and be the woman and the mom you want to be. If it happens to make you a better wife, great then. If not, his loss then. 12212011