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| This was a desicion only you could make. Also, the life of a baby with a mother of 19 is not an easy one, and in all liklihood your child would suffer in one way or another. if you believe it was the right choice for the baby and for you, then it was the right choice. | 12232011 | ||||||
| Gender | Female | Age | 44 |
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| Every child lost changes your history. I lost 3 babies to miscarriages. But I have 3 wonderful children who may not be perfect, but I wouldn't trade them for the world. It I had had just one of those babies that I miscarried, then my whole family would be different. It was sad when it happened, but life goes on and I moved on. It is OK to feel sad, and have regret. But you made the right choice for you at that time, and you can make your life what you want it to be. There will be a happy ending to this all someday if you want there to be. You don't have to try and forget it, it is a part of you and that is OK. | 12282011 | ||||||
| Gender | Female | Age | 18 |
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| I'm personally pro-choice, and I think having an abortion is a very serious decision to make, much less by yourself! Though when it comes down to it, at 19 you are most likely unable (emotionally, financially etc) to take care of another life that is so dependent on your every decision, so I think you made the right choice to abort. That being said, do NOT let the stress of your decision get the best of you. You should find someone to talk to, family or stranger, or therapist. One day you will mature and live a lifestyle where you can raise a beautiful baby however you choose, but you weren't ready right now and should not beat yourself up about it. I hope your thoughts reorganize and you feel better :) | 142012 | ||||||
| Gender | Female | Age | 25 |
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| You made the best decision possible for YOU as you saw it at the time. You cannot go back and change the past. Live life with no regrets. Talking to someone or even writing down your feelings will help. | 162012 | ||||||