| I've been on the other end of this predicament. When he came back years later I tried to love him again, but after having to cope with his loss once, my heart was simply unable to reattach itself. I still cared for him. I still respected him. But after a very brief fling, I told him I could not go back to the relationship, and I left him. It was never a decision on my part. He was wonderful and I wanted to love him, but our hearts learn from the pain they must endure, and sometimes it cannot be reconciled. It is hard to be alone, but you need to move on, you need to try to get over this man. Focus on yourself, things you love to do, things that interest you. When your mind is caught up on lost love, it is hard to focus on anything else, but over time you can train yourself so that your mind will be comfortably settled on other things. Focus on your life and the things you love, and someday you may find a bright new relationship. Good luck, and be strong. |
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