64
<table width="80%">
suggestion
<th width="10%">Gender</th><th width="15%">Female</th><th width="10%">Age</th><th width="15%">19</th></tr>
</table>
<table width="80%">
<tr align="center" valign="top" bgcolor="#FFFFF"><td align="left" colspan="5" >I think u will find the right  one & she well love u and will be soul mates forever & always & im sorry about what happend. </td>
<td align="center" colspan="3"><font color="blue">3252010</font></td></tr></table>
</table>
64
<table width="80%">
comment
<th width="10%">Gender</th><th width="15%">Female</th><th width="10%">Age</th><th width="15%">39</th></tr>
</table>
<table width="80%">
<tr align="center" valign="top" bgcolor="#FFFFF"><td align="left" colspan="5" >I think marriage is a good choice if you can be a kind husband. Remember you are not the only person to have had a difficult childhood. Additionally, the physical things you describe will only affect your  relationship if you let them. Being a good and fulfilling lover means more  than having a certain size. We are all imperfect creatures whether  imagined or real.  I wish you peace and joy. BostonGirl </td>
<td align="center" colspan="3"><font color="blue">4272010</font></td></tr></table>
</table>
64
<table width="80%">
comment
<th width="10%">Gender</th><th width="15%">Male</th><th width="10%">Age</th><th width="15%">35</th></tr>
</table>
<table width="80%">
<tr align="center" valign="top" bgcolor="#FFFFF"><td align="left" colspan="5" >I will try to explain what happens when person(s) do this to you when you are young - it is not so much physical, as it touches you who you are. That is, where you are you - identity. If you wish to marry, do tell your future partner all of this, and ask her to tell you who she thinks you are, for in large part we are what we do. If you can agree with what you do, you know who you are. If you do not, try to change your behavior. Therefore, ask your partner to criticise, but not to hurt, and truly do listen if she says something. If you dislike what she says, you may have to listen harder, because she might be onto something. Do this for a while, and only then decide on marriage - that way both of you truly know if it is right. (And stay out of bed while you explore this, as well as away from yourself - the pressure is good).</td>
<td align="center" colspan="3"><font color="blue">12172010</font></td></tr></table>
</table>
64
<table width="80%">
suggestion
<th width="10%">Gender</th><th width="15%">Female</th><th width="10%">Age</th><th width="15%">32</th></tr>
</table>
<table width="80%">
<tr align="center" valign="top" bgcolor="#FFFFF"><td align="left" colspan="5" >DUDE, don't get married. Get help, seriously, and reach out to support groups  in your community. As for your body issues, exercise can alleviate depression  symptoms, and it's not so bad for your self esteem either. Join a gym if you  can, or some good old jogging and pushups to energizing music can help as  well. Trust me, when you are in good shape, you will feel better and have a  more positive outlook, also it reduces stress. Join a running club in your  community. Even if you're not a runner, it's a great way to meet new friends  and they have groups for all skill levels. See a doctor about any erectile issues  you may have, they may be able to help. Instead of focusing on marriage, try  focusing on developing or cultivating good and nurturing friendships with  others! If you can be a good friend, that's a start! Also, don't do an arranged  marriage, please. You deserve a marriage of love and companionship, and  don't settle for anything else. Someone who knows you, and knows all your  faults, and loves you anyway, well, there's no comparison. Believe me, I know.  Good luck and don't give up on yourself, you've made the first step! </td>
<td align="center" colspan="3"><font color="blue">1232011</font></td></tr></table>
</table>