| First relationships are often hard. It's when you're discovering yourself, other people, and the boundaries to what you will do and accept. In a healthy relationship, you would be able to talk to him about your suspicions. Even if you lose him when he admits the truth or you get fed up with being strung along, it's worth it to bring up what is bothering you. If he cares for you and if he is not cheating, he will communicate with you about it and will not make you feel bad/stupid for asking. He will respect your concerns. Try not to accuse him straight up, but say you care and need to know what is going on. It's hard the first time, it feels like maybe you will never feel that way about someone again. But you will, and in time the pain of moving on lessens as you learn to cope and focus elsewhere. You deserve an honest relationship, and if you are willing to reach for one, loosing people along the way, eventually you will get the happiness/comfort you deserve. Good luck :) |
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