| If you want your old boyfriend back and you believe he wants you back, then first you need to be sure that this is what you want. If you are sure, then you need to be honest with him about what happened, apologize to him, the listen to him; there may be some things he needs to say that you won't want to hear. You need to listen to each other, because presumably, you're both a little different than you were before. Go out for coffee and conversation a few times, maybe more than a few times. Take it slow and easy; you both need to be sure you're on the same page. Again, if you dumped him, he may still have some hurt feelings, so be prepared for some of those to resurface. If you're meant to be together, however, he'll overcome them. You don't have to grovel -- what's done can't be undone. Acknowledge the past, but don't live in it. I sincerely hope things work out for you. |
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