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GenderFemaleAge39
It is not wrong to love someone, but if they already have a girlfriend don't let on about your feelings. Work hard at controling your emotions for that person especially since you will be devastated if he doesn't share your feelings. If he should break up with his girlfriend then you might have a chance. 142011
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GenderFemaleAge18
I have the same situtation, it sucks horribly. but i dont think its wrong, i use to and then realized that if your brother really cares about you then he will let you be with who you love. I have liked my brothers friend for about 4 years. Me and him both have had relationships inbetween. but me and him have also done things togther. we dont talk outside of my house, even though i want to. i want to tell im how i feel but i dont know how things would go. My brother knows a few things that happened between us but i always told him i didnt like him. i think you need to tlk to your brother and see how he feels about it. depending on how much older he is from you, i think you should go for it. I have been dealing with this for so long and its really hard. considering the guy has a girlfriend though might not be good. I suggest you wait til they brak up and then see if you have a connection. I know what im telling you isnt taking my own advice but i know how horrible it is. i think you can do it..even though i dont know you. :) 232011