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GenderFemaleAge32
Well, at least you are honest about your fears. Depending on your age, which I don't know what that is, it's hard to give advice. But if you are young, and are worried about cheating, it's safe to say it may happen. And she may cheat on you. But that does not mean that will be the end of the world, no matter how much you love her. It will hurt, but you will get through it. In the meantime, don't worry so much! Cherish the time you have with her, and in the States as well. Have fun, enjoy life. It's too short to worry about others' actions. Remember, you cannot control what she does, only what YOU do. Be true to yourself. And if you do cheat, be honest with her! I'm sure she'd rather know than not know! 1232011
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GenderMaleAge40
You could use some good role models. Read some biographies of accomplished people or people who have survived incredibly difficult situations - i assume you are in the military? there are hundreds of books written by soldiers who have been through hell in war situations - that might be a good place to start. good luck. You are at a difficult age - hang in there - things will clear up as you get older. 272011